Adoption is a complex legal process with many stakeholders; from the adopting family and the adoptive parent(s), to the child and the legal apparatus that safeguards a successful adoption process. But what does ‘adoptive parent’ mean?
The terms ‘adoptive parent’ and ‘adoption parent’ are often used interchangeably, but there is a definite distinction between the two terms. An ‘adoptive parent’ is defined as a person who has legally adopted a child, with all the rights and responsibilities of a biological parent. An adoptive parent has full legal authority over a child with all the duties that any other natural parent would have; providing food, shelter, love and guidance, as well as making important medical and other decisions related to the adopted child’s health, education and overall wellbeing.
Adoptive parents stay in contact with the child’s biological parents, even after the adoption is finalised. This is to ensure that the biological parents are at peace with the situation, especially if they are not ready for a permanent break with their child. This means that adoptive parents often take on the responsibility of mediators between the child and the biological parent or parents.
The Benefits of Becoming an Adoptive Parent
Adopting a child is a major decision, with many rewards. Adoptive parenthood is incredibly rewarding – it gives individuals and families fulfilling a sense of purpose and connection through providing love, stability, and security to children who lack biological family support.
When compared to other pathways to parenthood, adoption offers many benefits. Adoption offers an efficient and cost-effective way of forming a family, bypassing time-consuming fertility treatments that can be physically and financially draining. Additionally, depending on the process used, adoption processes can be relatively speedy meaning couples can become parents relatively quickly once their application has been approved.
Conclusion:
Adoption is a noble endeavour; by becoming an adoptive parent, you are providing stability and love to a child in need of a loving family. Adoptive parents have a tough job, but with the right dedication and plan in place, it can be incredibly rewarding.